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Love and Infatuation Part 2
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LOVE
Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss
about the details of a true love. Love is patient. The
word translated "patient" means to wait patiently
for the fulfilment of expectations.
When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does
not want to come out, if you truly love her, you will
not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation
from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems
which prevented her from coming out. You must react to
it with patience and understanding.
Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much that
you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress
faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give
a relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It does
not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to
grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties. Love
is Kind Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It
respects the feelings and emotions of others.. It finds
its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.
You can do the following:
1. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement
cards.
2. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party's
strength.
3. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what
each of you has to say and make each other feel that what
each says is important.
4. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and
encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.
5. Love is Not Jealous. Jealousy usually indicates an
insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others,
but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the
childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her,
then he can just forget about me!" Often, one person
wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her
relationships with others.
6. Love is not about bragging. Love is not a windbag
and is not anxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to
a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him.
A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt
himself! Others will exalt him.
7. Love is Not Arrogant. Love is not conceited, boastful,cocky,
or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant
attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with
an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His
demeanour implies, "You ought to be thankful that
somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course,
this is not love.
8. Love always covers. This word cover means to pass
over in silence, to keep confidential.
9. Love is patient with the faults of others. It doesn't
criticise and broadcast to the world the faults of others.
Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
10. Love always Perseveres. Love always stands its ground
and hold out. It will outlast anything. It will even love
in the face of unrequited love. Real love will last though
all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.
11. Love is Not Provoked. This means that love has a
long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It
is not easily offended.
12. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of
love. Love is other-centred rather than self-centred.
Love says, "I love you, I want to give to you."
Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"
13. Love does not act unbecomingly. This means that
love does not behave disgracefully, dishonourably or indecently.
It does not embarrass others by its action. It is characterised
by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should
have good manner. Be sure to do little things like opening
doors for your girl, or offering her your arm when you
walk together.
14. Lastly, Love is forgiving. This is a MUST for asuccessful
love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget
when his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting
love. Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged.
It doesn't remain resentful.
** Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins.
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